In my young days, I spent like a drunken sailor.
My parents gave up and my two Great Depression-era grandmothers cried tears over the debt I was getting myself into.
I was as cocky as they come. Living in the fast lane.
Got my first credit card at age 21
...and my first overdraft fee a month later.
A good airline job kept creditors happy.
(It's amazing how a decent paycheck attracts the hyenas)
So how the heck did I end up coaching around personal finance
Preaching how to run your finances like a Swiss clock.
How did this disciple of Spend turn into a master of Thrift and Efficiency?
- wiping my grandmother's tears?
It happened when I had avoided choosing HARD for so long that HARD chose me.
â›” Immigrant in the USA cleaning carpets for $7/hr with a 50K debt.
â›” Unable to find pilot jobs, not having the dollars to convert my license.
â›” Second kid on the way - still in debt.
💥 I looked in the mirror and saw the stall.
💥 Then summoned my resources.
✅ Used my flight planning skills to budget.
(Heck, if you run out of fuel or money - you crash just the same.)
✅ Used insights from my training in NLP to change my mindset around money and wealth, turning money into a tool rather than a drug.
✅ I learned by making mistakes in business. There is no substitute, except trying to learn as much from other people's mistakes.
✅ I grew up and took responsibility for my daughters, asking a simple question: What do I want them to model?
✅ I cultured the inner nerd and spent countless hours learning about investing, realizing that you can't get rich without the lever of compounding.
✅ I put everything I've learned into a syllabus that later turned into a book. This in turn made me better at "money".
✅ I understood that wealth building is about setting systems and strategies on auto-pilot - making you rich slowly.
(In case your 1:10,000 stab of quick riches fails)
